Is the dinner party dead? Guy Trebay wrote in the New YorkTimes yesterday that it just may be on the endangered species list.
I have to admit that in years gone by, there was a steadier
flow of people at my table than now. So, what gives? Are we too busy? Too
tired? Or, as Mr. Trebay suggests: “Increasingly,
such gatherings seem outmoded, squeezed out by overcrowded schedules, the phony
urgency of affinity sites, restaurants cultism and overall tectonic shifts in
how New Yorkers congregate.” Outside of the Big Apple, I’m not sure restaurant
cultism is a factor. It may be that collectively we’re in a rut, and cooking
for a crowd, once we are out of the habit, seems too daunting. It’s hard to be
a part-time cook. If you don’t cook on a regular basis, then inviting six to
eight people to your house once in a blue moon is a pretty steep mountain to
climb.
I want to get
back on the horse, but if I do, I will re-adjust my expectations. A dinner
party can (and in these times, maybe should) be an informal affair. Who says
spaghetti and meatballs, or even meat loaf is off limits? Better to make
something homey and comforting than to contort into a tizzy that leaves you
exhausted and cranky by the time your guests arrive.
I usually don’t
like to ask guests to bring anything—my feeling is if you are going to give
them dinner, give them a night off, too. Buy dessert, or just put a few olives
and nuts out before you sit down, and keep your sanity. It’s about the company.
Nobody cares whether or not you pull out a homemade chocolate torte. Of course,
it’s nice if the food is good, but the whole point is to bring people together.
With the holidays looming and so much busy-ness in the air, it might be a good
idea to set aside some time to relax with friends. Plan ahead and make a one-dish
meal that you can plop on the table with a salad. Spread out the cooking and
shopping if you can. Set the table the day before. Read Sara’s post at TheYellow House about making one grand gesture (a roast, for example) and having others bring
side dishes if that’s how you want to roll.
Here’s one humble
chicken dish idea: If you love dark, tender poultry and crisp skin, start by
making braised chicken thighs and turn the technique on its head. Usually, the
braising technique consists of browning food, then cooking it slowly in a
covered pot with a small amount of liquid. Here, to get the skin crisp, the
browned chicken goes into a baking dish with red onions, carrots, white wine,
chicken stock, and a touch of honey and vinegar to make a rich sauce. While the
vegetables cook in the liquid around the poultry, the exposed chicken skin
crisps and browns. The cooking juices make a flavorful sauce. This dish can be
prepared several hours ahead and reheated in the oven just before serving. Make
some rice or polenta and a salad to serve with it. Dinner is done!
Crispy braised chicken with vegetables
Serves 6
2 tablespoons olive oil
12 to 14 chicken thighs, with skin and bone (about 4 pounds total)
Salt and pepper, to taste
3 red onions, each cut into 8 wedges
8 carrots, cut into 3-inch lengths and halved lengthwise if
large
1 cup white wine
3 tablespoons white wine vinegar
2 tablespoons honey
2 1/2 cups chicken stock
2 sprigs fresh thyme
2 tablespoons chopped parsley, for garnish
1 Heat the oven to 375 degrees F. Have on hand two
9-by13-inch baking dishes.
2. Trim the excess fat from the chicken thighs. Pat them dry
with paper towels and season them on both sides with salt and pepper.
3. In a large skillet, heat the oil over medium heat. Add
the chicken, skin sides down. Cook for 5 to 6 minutes, or until the skin is
golden. Turn and cook on the other side for 3 minutes. Transfer the thighs,
skin sides up, to each of the 2 baking dishes. Tuck the carrots and onions
around them.
4. Pour off the fat from the skillet. Return the pan to the
heat and add the wine. Cook and stir for 1 minute to scrape up the brown bits
from the bottom. Stir in the vinegar and honey. Pour half of the liquid into
each baking dish. Add enough chicken stock to each dish to come halfway up the
sides of the chicken (it shouldn’t cover it.) Nestle the thyme sprigs into the
dish.
5. Braise, uncovered, in the oven for 45 minutes, or until
the meat and vegetables are tender.
6. Transfer the chicken and vegetables to a large platter. Sprinkle
with chopped parsley.
8. Pour the sauce into a large measuring cup and skim off
the fat. Transfer the sauce to a pitcher and serve alongside the chicken.
If you have leftovers, sauté some mushrooms, add spinach,
stir in rice and leftover chicken. Dinner is done, again.
STAY TUNED: COMING SOON IS A GUIDE FOR HOLIDAY GIVING (MORE RECIPES!)
STAY TUNED: COMING SOON IS A GUIDE FOR HOLIDAY GIVING (MORE RECIPES!)


this looks delish!!! and the dinner party is definitely not dead!! thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeletelove this whole entry. thanks, Sally! plan to try this at Christmas time.....
ReplyDeleteI hope you do! I may post another dinner in December--this is a great time for big one-dish suppers!
DeleteThoughtful post Sally. The "dinner party" of years ago, with the classic image of ladies in dresses and heels, men in suits, martini in hand, seems so long ago...and I guess it was. As you write, today schedules are so crazy, what matters is just getting together with good friends. Its about the company and enjoying each other. And yes, good homemade food it worth the doing, as so many people don't cook today. Home cooking, delicious braised chicken in a great sauce, is so welcome and a reason to celebrate. Everyone leaves full, happy and smiling. Informal is good! Yeah for the new dinner party! Nice post.
ReplyDeleteI agree with your assessment, Sally: if one doesn't cook often, having 6 people for dinner is daunting. I also agree that the focus should be on the human interaction. Whether you have 2 or 6 guests, you must be able to relax and enjoy their company, otherwise there is no point in having a party. This is a lovely recipe. I like that you get chicken and side vegetables out of the oven at the same time.
ReplyDeleteArranging the dinner parities at the home brings people together and this is the right time to make the special dishes for all the people and put good impression which is not only delicious but also healthier.
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